Are You Confused About What It Really Means to Be a Man Today?
“How do I define masculinity and embody strength without being seen as toxic?”
Many men are drawn to Masterful Men because they feel uncertain and confused about what it means to be a masculine man in today’s world. Society bombards men with conflicting messages about masculinity. You may feel trapped between wanting to be strong and assertive while fearing being labeled as toxic, aggressive, or insensitive. At the same time, you don’t want to come across as weak, feeble, or unattractive by being overly passive or sensitive.
You may also feel uneasy when others, especially women, ask questions or make comments that seem to imply you’re not “manly enough” or that you’re not living up to their expectations of what a man should be. These can be subtle or direct and may leave you feeling like you can’t win either way.
You may have heard questions like:
“Why are you so sensitive? Are you a man or what?”
“Why don’t you stand up for yourself more?”
“Why can’t you be more decisive?”
“Why don’t you take charge like a real man?”
“You’re such a pushover—why can’t you be more confident?”
“Why don’t you try harder to be the strong, silent type?”
“Why aren’t you more ambitious?”
“Why do you care so much about what other people think?”
“Don’t you want to be the protector in this relationship?”
These questions often deepen your sense of uncertainty, leaving you feeling caught between being “too soft” and being perceived as “toxic.” You’re stuck in the middle, unsure how to navigate between the extremes of being seen as either too aggressive or too weak.
On top of these external pressures, you may be stuck asking yourself:
“What does it really mean to be a man?”
“How can I be assertive without being seen as toxic?”
“Am I too aggressive or too passive?”
“Why do I feel conflicted about my role as a man?”
These questions reflect the internal struggles men face today as they navigate a world full of mixed messages about masculinity. Society often tells men to be strong but also emotionally open, assertive but not aggressive, confident but never domineering. This can create self-doubt and a sense of inadequacy, leaving you wondering how to balance these expectations without losing your authentic self.
It doesn’t have to stay this way. At Masterful Men, we provide a community and support system where you can explore these questions and redefine what masculinity means for you. You’ll benefit from connecting with mature men who have already walked this road and who have experience raising young men themselves. Through their guidance and shared wisdom, you’ll gain clarity, confidence, and a healthier understanding of your masculine identity.
- Learn from mature men who have walked this path: Gain insights from men who have faced similar struggles and raised their own sons with these principles.
- Redefine masculinity for yourself: Explore what it means to be a man without feeling pressured to conform to outdated or toxic stereotypes.
- Find strength in balance: Learn how to embrace both strength and emotional intelligence without losing who you are.
- Build confidence in your identity: Stop second-guessing yourself and gain the clarity you need to define your masculinity with confidence.
- Navigate relationships with clarity: Develop the tools to navigate both personal and professional relationships while being true to your values as a man.
- Join a supportive community: Connect with other men who’ve faced the same struggles and are redefining masculinity on their own terms.
Feeling unsure about what it means to be a man today isn’t the end of the road. It’s an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. At Masterful Men, we provide the support, mentorship, and understanding you need to embrace your masculinity in a way that’s authentic to you. You’ll also learn from men who’ve been in your shoes and can offer wisdom from their experiences. You don’t have to face this struggle alone. Together, we’ll help you redefine and reclaim your sense of masculinity.
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More Info: The Masterful Journey: Your Path to Becoming an Unshakable, Masterful Man
The Masterful Journey is a structured and transformative path designed to guide men from the earliest stages of awakening to the highest levels of personal mastery. This six-course program equips men to build emotional resilience, cultivate deeper relationships, and live with purpose, integrity, and strength.
The journey begins with The Awakened Purposeful Man, where men recognize the call to a more meaningful and fulfilling life. From there, each stage is designed to challenge and refine your growth, helping you unlock your potential and overcome internal and external obstacles.
- In The Courageous Committed Man, you’ll take bold steps to embrace change and commit to personal growth.
- The Resilient Enduring Man focuses on building emotional endurance, teaching you how to thrive through adversity.
- The Renewed Masculine Man helps you redefine and reclaim your masculine identity, creating deeper connections and emotional freedom.
- The Integrated Empowered Man merges your newfound strength with wisdom and emotional intelligence, enabling you to lead with authenticity.
- Finally, in The Unshakable Grounded Man, you embody true mastery—unshakable, resilient, and grounded, living with purpose and confidence.
Each course builds on the last, providing a roadmap for transformation that balances emotional, mental, and relational growth. Whether you’re seeking to break free from old patterns, build unshakable resilience, or live a life of purpose and legacy, The Masterful Journey is your path to becoming the man you aspire to be.
The Investment
The Masterful Journey has two components:
- Monthly Group Mentoring & Coaching (monthly subscription):
- Self-guided Study of Curriculum
| Stage | Time to Complete | Curriculum Cost | Live Monthly Group Mentoring Sessions |
|---|---|---|---|
| The Awakened Purposeful Man | Two weeks | Included in community membership | Not Included |
| The Courageous Committed Man | 1-2 Months | $150 | 1 |
| The Resilient Enduring Man | 2 Months | $250 | 4 |
| The Renewed Masculine Man | 6 months | $900 | 3 |
| The Integrated Empowered Man | 6 months | $900 | 2 |
| The Unshakable Grounded Man | 6 months | $900 | 2 |
F.A.Qs
Courses & Costs
Why are some courses more expensive than others?
The later stages of The Masterful Journey require more time, energy, and resources to complete. As you progress, the courses grow in intensity and length, with added construction and maintenance costs. These courses are designed to guide you through deeper, more transformational work, making the investment worthwhile.
Why is there a monthly subscription if a course takes only a few months?
While a course might only take a few months, the real transformation comes from staying engaged in the Outpost Coaching & Community Group. Men often procrastinate, seek comfort, or stall, which prevents real growth. Our monthly subscription ensures that you stay committed to the journey and continue to push your personal development forward. The coaching groups also offer ongoing support, connection, and mentorship with men at a similar stage in their journey.
Can I buy the curriculum and not participate in the community?
While curriculum access is tied to a group subscription, you can scale back your involvement to as little as $15/month. This option allows you to maintain access to your purchased courses and re-engage with the community when you’re ready to dive back in.
What are the total costs associated with each course and community subscription?
The course costs range from $150 for early stages to $900 for advanced stages. In addition, access to The Outpost Coaching & Community Group is $125/month, which includes live Zoom coaching and community interaction. You can downgrade to $15/month if you’re unable to maintain active participation but still want to keep curriculum access.
Coaching & Community
What is The Outpost Coaching & Community Group?
The Outpost is your space to interact with other men on the same journey. It includes access to course discussions, assignments, and scheduled live coaching sessions. This group keeps you accountable, ensures you’re progressing, and offers support tailored to your specific stage of the journey.
Do I need to join The coaching and community group to access the courses?
If you’ve not purchased them, yes. Once you own them, no. We believe transformation happens best through community support, coaching, and involvement. That’s why we require men to start with it to ensure you’re surrounded by like-minded men and have the guidance necessary to make real progress.
Can I pause or scale back my membership if I need to?
Yes, you can scale back your involvement without losing access to the curriculum for as little as $15/month. This option allows you to retain your course materials and re-engage fully when you’re ready.
One-on-One Coaching
What if I want 1-on-1 coaching instead of group coaching?
We offer private 1-on-1 coaching, which includes access to the Group Coaching for assignments and discussions. Even if you choose private sessions, we recommend participating in the group sessions as well for maximum growth. You’ll have access to a VIP calendar for scheduling your 1-on-1 sessions.
General Questions
Why do we have monthly subscriptions for group coaching?
The subscriptions ensure ongoing accountability and support, keeping your plot moving forward. Many men stall or procrastinate without continuous pressure, which is why we’ve designed the monthly subscription model—to help you maintain momentum and commitment to your growth. This also rewards the diligent and committed by ensuring their cost is lower and potentially increases the cost for procrastinators, which supports the work we do to guide such men to being more decisive, following through on commitments, and putting an end to procrastinating – all ingredients necessary to create a masterful life.
Can I downgrade my subscription if I’m not actively participating?
Yes, if you’re unable to maintain the intensity of your journey, you can downgrade your subscription while retaining access to the courses. You’ll lose access to the support and coaching community and associated live sessions, but you can keep studying the curriculum at your own pace for as little as $15/month. We also have a community only option that allows men to continue to connect with peers and access their purchased curriculum but not access the mentoring guidance ($50/month).
What else is included?
In addition to the live Zoom mentoring sessions that are baked into the Masterful Journey, our members also enjoy access to four “Power Hour” hot-seat coaching calls per week where they can get immediate help getting unstuck in whatever they’re seeking to create in their lives. These calls are like a “scrum” or “standup” call for personal development work.
Lastly, we have several niche support groups dedicated to topics like divorce and separation, sexless marriage, avoidant spouses, affair recovery, and more being added all the time.
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