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What is the ideal amount of time for couples to spend together?
This is a question many many men seek an answer to, usually when feeling like they're not spending much time together with their wife, girlfriend, or significant other. I recently asked the men over at Mentoring.men this question in the form of a poll and got 34...
Why your wife keeps bringing up the past, won’t let it go, and what you can do about it
It’s also why women call these kinds of husbands Narcissists – because one trait of narcissism is a lack of empathy. Of course, very few of these men truly are Narcissists, but the point remains, the feeling of being with a man without empathy is agonizing for a woman.
Diseases that effect men: “Questionitis”?
After helping men through their struggles for a while now, I believe I've stumbled on a new condition or dis-ease that widely effects and impacts men. This disease disproportionately impacts men in long-term relationships. Questionitis - a condition that deprives men...
When is Sven Masterson gonna write a book?
I'm always utterly flattered when people ask "when are you gonna write a book?" or say "you should write a book!". I do often chuckle a bit, because most of those people already experience my words often-enough. Maybe having them wrapped up with a dust cover makes...
What to immediately START doing when experiencing marriage trouble
Let's face it. Marriage or relationship trouble is hard. Really hard. Few scenarios will rock a man's world more deeply than hearing: "I'm not in love with you anymore" or "I need space" or "I think we should separate". Those words send countless men into a...
Men’s personal growth: the heart of it (and heart coherence of it)
It’s my belief that heart coherence, the Heart Math Experience and the Inner Balance Trainer offer crucial help to those on a personal development journey to overcome challenges.
How long did it take for your wife to…?
Hi friends. I am often asked about how things turned around between myself and my wife. Today I want to share with you my response to a video from "Luke". Luke's questions are one I get on a regular basis and it seemed like a good opportunity to share with others...
Why don’t we have more sex?!
Hey brother… I often get questions sent to me like Greg’s below who asks… “I’d like to hear about the patience between lovemaking. I.E., the magic moment happened, and now I have to wait 3 - 5 weeks again, but it is becoming very regularly 3 - 5 weeks, which isn’t...
What on earth is my mission?!
In personal development circles and men's work, finding one's mission and purpose is often spoken about. This frustrates many men who struggle to find their mission. Many experience shame, discouragement and feelings of inferiority for not having a more clear vision...
Why you should bury your wife in the backyard
Let's face it... relationships are hard! They're frustrating, demanding, and often downright exasperating. In the video below, I speak about how our relationships are challenged and downright imperiled by a very subtle process of creating imaginary versions of our...