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Is Your Partner Calling You a Narcissist? Take These Tests to Understand Your Behaviors
Assess Your Actions with 8 Types of Narcissism and Discover Why Your Partner Sees You This Way
Are you hearing your partner say, “You’re acting like a narcissist,” or wondering why she feels like you’re emotionally disconnected, self-centered, or manipulative? If you’re looking for answers, you’re not alone. These assessments are designed to help you understand which of your behaviors might be triggering accusations of narcissism from your partner or others around you. By exploring the eight types of narcissism—including grandiose, vulnerable, covert, malignant, communal, sexual, somatic, and cerebral narcissism—you can gain clarity on what might be driving these perceptions and take steps toward personal growth.
Whether you’re questioning if you truly have narcissistic tendencies or just struggling with emotional reactivity, these tests offer insights to help you identify where your behaviors may be misunderstood. They’re not about labeling you, but about helping you see why your partner may view your actions as narcissistic.
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Take our Robust Narcissism Assessment to gain deep insights into your relationship dynamics and uncover behaviors you may not even realize are affecting your partner.Here’s what you’ll get:
✅ Evaluation of 8 Types of Narcissism: Grandiose, Vulnerable, Malignant, Covert, Communal, Somatic, Sexual, and Cerebral.
✅ Personalized Narcissistic Behavior Score: See where you stand overall and for each type.
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Disclaimer:
We want to remind you that we are not mental health professionals; this is not a diagnosis, and the information below is not offered as medical or mental health guidance. The insights and assessments are intended to help you understand why your partner may be seeing some of your behaviors as narcissistic and identifying or accusing you of being a narcissist. These assessments are for personal reflection and growth—not for clinical evaluation.
Does Your Behavior Make You Look Like a Grandiose Narcissist?
Is your wife or partner accusing you of being a grandiose narcissist? Men who display grandiose narcissism often come across as overly confident, seeking admiration and recognition. You may think you’re just being assertive, but she might see your behavior as self-centered or dismissive of her feelings. Take this assessment to find out how much your behaviors resemble grandiose narcissism and learn what steps you can take to rebuild emotional connection.
Does Your Behavior Make You Look Like a Vulnerable Narcissist?
Have you been labeled as a vulnerable narcissist by your partner? Vulnerable narcissism shows up in hypersensitivity, defensiveness, and an underlying fear of criticism. What feels like emotional protection to you might be coming across as self-absorption or emotional unavailability. Take this assessment to see if your actions reflect vulnerable narcissism and how to change the dynamic in your relationship.
Does Your Behavior Make You Look Like a Covert Narcissist?
Is your wife accusing you of being a covert narcissist? Unlike overt forms of narcissism, covert narcissism can manifest as passive-aggressive behavior, emotional withdrawal, or a quiet sense of superiority. While you may see yourself as avoiding conflict, your partner might feel dismissed or manipulated. Take this assessment to determine if your behavior aligns with covert narcissism and find out how you can create a more balanced, open connection.
Does Your Behavior Make You Look Like a Malignant Narcissist?
Are you being called a malignant narcissist by your spouse? Malignant narcissism involves a need for control, dominance, and emotional manipulation. You might believe you’re just taking the lead, but your partner could feel overpowered, disregarded, or even trapped. Take this assessment to see how much your behaviors reflect malignant narcissism and discover how to shift from control to collaboration in your relationship.
Does Your Behavior Make You Look Like a Communal Narcissist?
Is your wife accusing you of being a communal narcissist? Communal narcissism appears when your desire to help or be virtuous is driven by the need for praise or recognition. While you may see yourself as the “good guy,” your partner might feel judged or unappreciated for not constantly validating your sacrifices. Take this assessment to find out if your actions mirror communal narcissism and how to embrace generosity without expectations.
Does Your Behavior Make You Look Like a Somatic Narcissist?
Is your partner calling you a somatic narcissist? Somatic narcissism focuses on physical appearance and body image, where seeking admiration for your looks overshadows emotional intimacy. If your wife feels like she’s competing with the mirror for attention, take this assessment to see if your behaviors resemble somatic narcissism and learn how to refocus on deeper emotional connection.
Does Your Behavior Make You Look Like a Sexual Narcissist?
Has your spouse accused you of being a sexual narcissist? Sexual narcissism manifests when intimacy is more about validation, performance, and ego than about mutual connection. If your wife feels used or emotionally neglected in the bedroom, take this assessment to discover if your behaviors align with sexual narcissism and how to cultivate a more fulfilling, connected intimate life.
Does Your Behavior Make You Look Like a Cerebral Narcissist?
Is your wife or partner accusing you of being a cerebral narcissist? Cerebral narcissism places intellectual superiority and the need to be “right” above emotional connection. While you may pride yourself on being logical and knowledgeable, your partner might feel dismissed or diminished. Take this assessment to see if your behaviors reflect cerebral narcissism and learn how to foster both intellectual respect and emotional intimacy.
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