Why doesn’t she want to be intimate with me anymore, and is there any hope for us?

Are You Exhausted from Living in a Sexless Marriage, Wondering if Intimacy Will Ever Return?

“Why doesn’t she want to be intimate with me anymore, and is there any hope for us?”

You’re living in a marriage or relationship where the intimacy has either died or is barely holding on. The sexual connection you once had is gone, or it has become so infrequent, detached, and difficult to initiate that you’ve all but given up on trying. You don’t want to end your relationship, but you can’t imagine spending the rest of your life in this state of sexlessness or going through the motions with pity sex or obligatory birthday and anniversary sex.

Her words replay in your mind:

“I could go the rest of my life without having sex.”

“Why is sex such a big deal to you?”

“The thought of sex with you turns me off.”

You’re stuck, questioning everything:

“Why doesn’t she want to be intimate with me anymore?”

“Can we ever reignite the passion we once had?”

“Is there any hope for change, or is this my new reality?”

The emotional toll of being stuck in a sexless marriage is immense. You feel rejected, undesired, and alone. Every attempt to rekindle the intimacy seems to fail, and you’re left wondering if you’re being unreasonable for wanting more. You’ve tried everything to “get her to want to give you sex again,” but nothing has worked, leaving you feeling hopeless, exasperated, and lost. The rejection has begun to take a toll on your self-esteem, and you’re questioning if this is the relationship you’re meant to have for the rest of your life.

It doesn’t have to stay this way. There is hope for change. Many men in your position have faced the same disheartening reality and found a way to navigate their relationship’s intimacy challenges. You don’t have to live in limbo or despair any longer. The Sexless Marriage Survival Guide course and support group is designed to help you reclaim your confidence, navigate these emotional challenges, and gain practical tools to approach intimacy in your marriage with new insights.

Reclaim your self-esteem: Learn how to protect your emotional well-being despite the lack of physical intimacy.
Navigate the rejection with resilience: Stop letting constant rejection define your self-worth.
Communicate your needs without creating more tension: Gain tools to express your needs in a way that fosters understanding rather than conflict.
Decide with clarity: Whether to stay and work on your marriage or seek a different path, make that decision from a place of emotional strength.
Join a supportive community: Receive guidance and mentoring from other men in similar situations, offering support, understanding, and shared experiences.

In the Sexless Marriage Survival Guide, you’ll find the support, guidance, and strategies to approach this difficult chapter with clarity and strength. You don’t have to accept a life of rejection and unfulfilled needs. Whether the path leads to reigniting intimacy or deciding to move forward differently, you’ll do so with confidence and support.

Join The Sexless Marriage Survival Guide Course and Support Group Today

Take the first step toward understanding your relationship and finding a path to emotional and physical fulfillment.

You don’t need to face this alone.

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Stage	Time to Complete	Curriculum Cost	Live Monthly Group Mentoring Sessions
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The Resilient Enduring Man	2 Months	$250	4
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F.A.Qs

Courses & Costs

Why are some courses more expensive than others?
The later stages of The Masterful Journey require more time, energy, and resources to complete. As you progress, the courses grow in intensity and length, with added construction and maintenance costs. These courses are designed to guide you through deeper, more transformational work, making the investment worthwhile.

Why is there a monthly subscription if a course takes only a few months?
While a course might only take a few months, the real transformation comes from staying engaged in the Outpost Coaching & Community Group. Men often procrastinate, seek comfort, or stall, which prevents real growth. Our monthly subscription ensures that you stay committed to the journey and continue to push your personal development forward. The coaching groups also offer ongoing support, connection, and mentorship with men at a similar stage in their journey.

Can I buy the curriculum and not participate in the community?
While curriculum access is tied to a group subscription, you can scale back your involvement to as little as $15/month. This option allows you to maintain access to your purchased courses and re-engage with the community when you’re ready to dive back in.

What are the total costs associated with each course and community subscription?
The course costs range from $150 for early stages to $900 for advanced stages. In addition, access to The Outpost Coaching & Community Group is $125/month, which includes live Zoom coaching and community interaction. You can downgrade to $15/month if you’re unable to maintain active participation but still want to keep curriculum access.

Coaching & Community

What is The Outpost Coaching & Community Group?
The Outpost is your space to interact with other men on the same journey. It includes access to course discussions, assignments, and scheduled live coaching sessions. This group keeps you accountable, ensures you’re progressing, and offers support tailored to your specific stage of the journey.

Do I need to join The coaching and community group to access the courses?
If you’ve not purchased them, yes. Once you own them, no. We believe transformation happens best through community support, coaching, and involvement. That’s why we require men to start with it to ensure you’re surrounded by like-minded men and have the guidance necessary to make real progress.

Can I pause or scale back my membership if I need to?
Yes, you can scale back your involvement without losing access to the curriculum for as little as $15/month. This option allows you to retain your course materials and re-engage fully when you’re ready.

One-on-One Coaching

What if I want 1-on-1 coaching instead of group coaching?
We offer private 1-on-1 coaching, which includes access to the Group Coaching for assignments and discussions. Even if you choose private sessions, we recommend participating in the group sessions as well for maximum growth. You’ll have access to a VIP calendar for scheduling your 1-on-1 sessions.

General Questions

Why do we have monthly subscriptions for group coaching?
The subscriptions ensure ongoing accountability and support, keeping your plot moving forward. Many men stall or procrastinate without continuous pressure, which is why we’ve designed the monthly subscription model—to help you maintain momentum and commitment to your growth. This also rewards the diligent and committed by ensuring their cost is lower and potentially increases the cost for procrastinators, which supports the work we do to guide such men to being more decisive, following through on commitments, and putting an end to procrastinating – all ingredients necessary to create a masterful life.

Can I downgrade my subscription if I’m not actively participating?
Yes, if you’re unable to maintain the intensity of your journey, you can downgrade your subscription while retaining access to the courses. You’ll lose access to the support and coaching community and associated live sessions, but you can keep studying the curriculum at your own pace for as little as $15/month. We also have a community only option that allows men to continue to connect with peers and access their purchased curriculum but not access the mentoring guidance ($50/month).

What else is included?
In addition to the live Zoom mentoring sessions that are baked into the Masterful Journey, our members also enjoy access to four “Power Hour” hot-seat coaching calls per week where they can get immediate help getting unstuck in whatever they’re seeking to create in their lives. These calls are like a “scrum” or “standup” call for personal development work.
Lastly, we have several niche support groups dedicated to topics like divorce and separation, sexless marriage, avoidant spouses, affair recovery, and more being added all the time.