Most men’s work today is all about selling you an identity—alpha, warrior, king—but real growth isn’t about performing masculinity. It’s about becoming a grounded, steady, trustworthy man. In this article, I break down why my approach to men’s work is different, how I filter for serious men in my community, and why transformation should be felt by those closest to you—not just talked about. Read more here.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough—like no matter how hard you try, you’re still falling short—I understand. I carried that belief for years, a quiet but constant voice telling me I wasn’t worthy of love or success. It wasn’t until my marriage was on the brink that I realized how deeply shame and self-loathing had taken root in my life. But here’s the truth: those feelings are not who you are, and they don’t have to define you. In this post, I’ll share my journey from self-doubt to self-acceptance and offer the first steps you can take to reclaim your confidence.
When we first meet these men, they’re convinced they have specific problems like:
Being unappreciated/disrespected/overlooked
Feeling alone even though in a relationship or in a crowd
An angry, cold, distant wife or partner who doesn’t seem to like them, let alone love them
Not receiving warmth/attention/affection/touch/together time/sex/intimacy
Their wife/partner spending too much time on her phone/with friends/with the kids/etc
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