
The Master’s Series:
From Fights to Foreplay
A 7-Week Elite Coaching Experience for Men Who Want Less Conflict,
More Intimacy, and a Stronger Marriage
Restore intimacy, rebuild trust, and become the calm, grounded leader your marriage needs—without therapy, begging, or shutting down.
What If Every Fight Brought You Closer?
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Do arguments leave you feeling frustrated, disconnected, or powerless?
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Do you try to stay calm, only to end up defending, fixing, or shutting down?
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Do you wish you knew how to lead through conflict instead of reacting to it?
If so—you’re not alone.
Most men have never been shown how to navigate emotional intensity with grounded presence.
They repeat the same patterns… then wonder why nothing changes.
This small group coaching experience will change that.
Not Another Course. Not Therapy. A Master-Level Reframe of Conflict.
This is not about communication tips or psychological theory.
It’s about becoming a man who can lead through emotional tension, hold his frame, and create connection—even in the middle of chaos.
It’s for men who want to:
✅ Stay grounded when she gets emotional
✅ Respond instead of reacting
✅ Lead without controlling or collapsing
✅ Build intimacy through leadership, not negotiation
✅ Turn arguments into opportunities for connection—and even foreplay
The Conflict Code Curriculum
WEEK 1: Why Your Arguments Keep You Stuck
Break the conflict loop and identify the three patterns (fight, fix, flee) that sabotage connection.
WEEK 2: Escaping the Drama Triangle & Leading With Connection
Step out of the victim/persecutor/rescuer cycle and lead with presence instead of reaction.
WEEK 3: Understanding Her Complaints—And Turning Them Into Desire
Decode the unspoken needs in every complaint and respond with grounded leadership.
WEEK 4: The Art of Holding Space – How to Stay Grounded and Attractive
Learn frame control: breathe, move, speak, and respond in a way that creates safety and attraction.
WEEK 5: Turning Conflict Into Intimacy & Foreplay
Transform tension into closeness. Use polarity, playfulness, and leadership to create desire.
WEEK 6: Inviting Her Into Connection Without Forcing It
Validate without absorbing. Challenge without controlling. Lead without chasing.
WEEK 7: Locking in the Transformation
Build systems for mastery so these skills become your default—not just a temporary shift.
How It Works
🗓 Dates: May 5, 12, 26 | June 2, 9, 16, 30
🕖 Time: Mondays at 7 PM ET
📍 Live via Zoom (90 min sessions, all recorded)
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7 Weekly Coaching Sessions
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Weekly Office Hours (Live Q&A + Troubleshooting)
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Weekly Integration Challenges
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Optional Private Group Chat
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Voice/Video Access to Sven between sessions
- Access to the Group space (recordings and discussions) for one-year.
What You’ll Get
✅ 7 Live Group Coaching Calls (recorded)
✅ Office Hours for personalized support
✅ Actionable Weekly Challenges
✅ Direct Access to Sven for feedback and check-ins
✅ Private Community for accountability and connection
Two Enrollment Options
🔹 BASIC – $999
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Full access to all live sessions, assignments, office hours, and group discussion.
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Pay in full or in 2 equal installments of $1050.
💎 VIP – $2,000
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Everything in BASIC
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PLUS: 3 Private 60-Minute Coaching Calls with Sven
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Use during the group coaching period or within 90 days after
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Ideal for personal challenges, real-time emotional gridlock, or post-program refinement
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What’s A Peaceful, Connected, Fight-Free Marriage Worth to You?
What would it be worth to…
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Stop fearing every argument?
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Show up with clarity, instead of confusion or shame?
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Turn emotional tension into trust, safety, and attraction?
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Become the man your wife respects, trusts, and wants again?
This isn’t just about avoiding divorce or fixing your marriage.
It’s about reclaiming your self-respect, confidence, and power—as a man who knows how to lead with love.
A Quick Word About Abuse, Misuse, and Emotional Immaturity
This experience will teach you how to lead through emotional conflict, stay grounded under pressure, and rebuild connection through strength—not reactivity.
But it’s not a rescue mission.
It’s not trauma counseling.
And it won’t work if you’re not willing to own your role in the dynamic.
There’s a difference between:
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Misuse → Emotional heat, complaints, or criticism that comes from pain and poor tools
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Abuse → Patterns of manipulation, control, or degradation meant to break or erase you
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And Immaturity → Feeling “attacked” because you’ve never learned to hold emotional tension without collapsing
If your wife is consistently calling you names, gaslighting you, or making you feel unsafe—that’s a serious red flag.
But if she’s emotional, frustrated, or even reactive—and it feels abusive to you—it might be time to look inward and ask:
Am I interpreting her pain as persecution… because I don’t yet know how to lead through emotional discomfort?
If your boundaries are weak or non-existent, if you constantly feel like a victim, or if conflict regularly leaves you shut down for days, you may benefit from private coaching first.
This program is for men who are ready to be challenged, seen, and sharpened—not rescued.
👉 If you’re unsure, request an application—and reply to the confirmation email with a bit about your situation. I’ll give you honest feedback about whether this or a private 1-on-1 intensive is the better path forward.
No shame. Just clarity.
If you think need deeper care than this group experience can offer…
👉 Apply for the 1-on-1 Intensive Here
Ready to Stop Fighting the Same Fight?
This isn’t a casual group or an info-dump Zoom call.
This is for the man who’s serious about mastering emotional leadership.
A man who wants to change the way he leads his relationship—forever.
🧭 Next Group Starts May 5, 2025 at 7 PM ET
🔥 Registration Closes April 1
🚀 Request An Application:
⚠️ This Isn’t for Every Man
This is not a course for men looking for quick fixes, magic phrases, or ways to control their wife’s reactions. If that’s what you’re after, save your money—this is not for you.
👉 If you believe your marriage problems are all her fault, this isn’t for you.
👉 If you’re hoping she’ll suddenly “see the light” without you changing anything, this isn’t for you.
👉 If you’re stuck in analysis paralysis—reading, theorizing, and waiting for the “perfect time” to act—this isn’t for you.
This is for men who are ready to lead themselves first.
Because here’s the truth: She isn’t the problem. The way you handle conflict, tension, and connection determines the energy of your relationship. If you can’t hold your frame, regulate your emotions, and lead with confidence, nothing else will change.
This is for men who are ready to take ownership—who see the value in investing in mastery, not just dabbling in concepts.
If that’s not you yet, that’s okay. But this room is for men who step up, take action, and commit to becoming the man who naturally creates intimacy, trust, and attraction.
If you’re ready, keep reading. If not—come back when you are.