Coaching & Mentoring FAQs

Are there any prerequisites for beginning mentoring?

Yes, there are a few essential attributes I look for in a potential mentee before we begin mentoring. These can be summed up with the acronym L.I.F.E—Love, Initiative, Follow-through, and Effort.

• Love: This doesn’t refer to romantic love, but to the ability to approach our relationship with mutual respect and kindness. It’s important that mentees value themselves and others, and understand that their time and mine are both precious. If someone struggles with hostility or a lack of basic respect, mentoring may not be the right fit, and they might benefit more from therapy or another form of support.

• Initiative: I look for men who are willing to take the first step. You don’t have to be perfect, but you do need to be willing to try. I’m not going to chase or hound you to follow through on our conversations—that responsibility lies with you. Initiative is the spark that begins the process of growth.

• Follow-through: Trying is great, but you also need to follow through. Growth only happens when you stick with the process, especially when it gets difficult. If there’s no follow-through, there’s little opportunity for progress.

• Effort: Effort is what connects initiative to follow-through. It’s the ongoing commitment to putting in the work and staying engaged. Mentoring requires not just reflection, but active participation and consistent energy to make the changes you want in your life.

Even if you feel you’re lacking in some of these areas, don’t be discouraged. If you have even a small spark of these qualities, that’s enough to begin the journey. Mentoring is about growing that spark into something bigger, so as long as you’re willing to try, there’s potential for growth.

How do I get started mentoring with you?

The first step in starting men’s mentoring is reaching out through the free mentoring session form. This shows initiative, a crucial attribute in the Masterful Men journey. When requesting an inquiry, you may be invited to schedule a free 60-90-minute session via phone or Zoom to get to know each other. This session does not focus on commitments or costs—just a deep conversation about your goals and challenges. Following a brief pause for reflection, if you decide to work together and want to take the next step,  it’s up to you to reach out and take the steps to continue. If your desired approach entails working one-on-one, we’ll have a brief commitment call to outline specific goals and discuss the investment required for mentoring.

What does mentoring look like? What takes place?

In my coaching & mentoring, there are two options: group mentoring and 1-on-1 coaching.

Group Mentoring

Group mentoring combines the structured content of the Masterful Man course work with the support and interaction of live Zoom meetings. The course materials provide the foundation, offering tools and insights to help you build emotional resilience, strengthen relationships, and develop self-leadership. You’ll work through these lessons at your own pace, learning practical strategies for personal growth.

The live Zoom meetings are where we bring these concepts to life. You’ll join other men who are on similar journeys, allowing for discussion, feedback, and shared experiences. I guide these sessions, facilitating open conversations around the challenges you’re facing and the breakthroughs you’re achieving. It’s a supportive, collaborative space where accountability and community come together to ensure you apply the course content to real-life situations. Group mentoring offers both the structured learning of a course and the real-time support of a connected community.

1-on-1 Coaching

In 1-on-1 coaching, you’ll receive everything included in the group mentoring—course work and live Zoom sessions—but with the added benefit of personalized, high-focus coaching sessions every 10-14 days. These one-on-one calls are tailored to your specific challenges and goals, providing a deeper, more targeted level of support. Between these calls, we may also exchange video or email messages to clarify key points, answer questions, or provide additional insights into areas we’re focusing on. This ongoing, direct communication ensures you stay on track and can immediately address any roadblocks as they arise.

The combination of self-paced course work, live group interaction, and personalized 1-on-1 coaching creates a comprehensive mentoring experience that supports both your individual growth and your sense of connection with other men on a similar path. Whether in a group setting or through focused individual attention, the goal is to help you make meaningful, lasting changes in your life.

Will there be assignments?

In the Masterful Man program, yes, there are frequent assignments designed to help you apply what you’re learning to your everyday life. These assignments are not arbitrary tasks but are crafted to challenge your thinking, push your growth, and help you practice the principles we explore in the course. The goal is to encourage self-reliance, initiative, and follow-through.

While I do provide these assignments as part of the structured program, it’s up to you to take them on with intention and purpose. They are meant to enhance your personal growth and help you build the skills needed to live as a resilient, masterful man. Outside of the formal assignments, I also encourage you to create your own challenges and goals based on what we discuss in our sessions, further reinforcing the self-leadership that’s central to my mentoring philosophy.

Will you keep me accountable?

My mentoring focuses on developing self-accountability. True strength in a man comes from being accountable to himself, driven by his values and principles rather than fear of external pressures. When a man learns to be accountable to himself, he naturally becomes accountable in all other areas of life.

Why isn’t mentoring free?

Mentoring requires a significant investment of time, heart, and mind. Offering it without an exchange of value devalues both the process and the man involved. As men of worth, we must recognize that investing in ourselves—whether through time, effort, or resources—is key to creating lasting transformation.

How much does mentoring cost?

The cost of mentoring is tied to the value it represents to you. Rather than focusing on a price, I invite men to ask themselves what they want to achieve and the value they place on reaching their goals. I offer clearly published mentoring options, and it’s a matter of selecting the one that best fits your needs, based on my availability.

It’s crucial to recognize that the cost of doing nothing is often far higher than the investment in mentoring. For many men, the financial and emotional costs of staying stuck in a broken relationship or a life that feels out of control can be devastating. The cost for mentoring, even for an entire year, is typically far less than what most men will spend on just the first month’s rent, security deposit, and the setup costs of a second household when a relationship fails. And that doesn’t even include legal fees and long-term consequences.

For some men, fixing a broken car or making a financial investment in other areas of life isn’t something they give a second thought to. But when it comes to fixing a broken life or marriage, it gives them pause. Why is that? The investment in your personal growth and relationships is just as critical—if not more so—than the material things we often prioritize. Investing in mentoring now can help you rebuild a stronger, more fulfilling life and avoid the long-term consequences of inaction.

Do you mentor women?

While I primarily mentor men, there are times when I assist women, depending on the situation. Women who resonate with my approach are welcome to reach out and explore whether I can offer guidance.

What is the Masterful Men journey?

The Masterful Men journey is a structured program designed to help men achieve lasting transformation by building inner strength, mastering their emotions, and creating healthier relationships. Through personal coaching, self-paced courses, and a supportive men’s community, this journey helps men unlock their full potential.

What results can I expect from working with a men’s coach?

Working with a men’s coach can lead to improved emotional resilience, stronger relationships, increased self-confidence, and a clearer sense of purpose. You’ll gain the tools and strategies to manage emotions, overcome limiting beliefs, and create lasting change in your personal and professional life.

How can a men’s coach help me improve my relationships?

A men’s coach helps you develop the emotional tools and self-awareness needed to create and maintain healthy relationships. By focusing on emotional resilience, communication skills, and self-leadership, you’ll learn how to strengthen connections with your partner, family, and colleagues.

What makes your coaching different from other men’s coaching programs?

My coaching focuses on helping men develop long-lasting emotional strength and resilience, rather than offering quick fixes. I combine decades of experience, practical wisdom, and proven strategies with a supportive men’s community to foster deep, lasting change.

How do I know if I need a men’s coach?

You may need a men’s coach if you feel stuck, overwhelmed by emotions, or disconnected from your relationships or purpose. Coaching can help you develop the emotional resilience, self-leadership, and confidence needed to regain control of your life and reach your potential.

What topics are covered in your self-paced courses?

My self-paced courses cover topics like emotional mastery, relationship building, self-leadership, and personal growth. These courses are designed to help men create lasting change through practical, actionable strategies.