
“I’m Unhappy With the Sex in My Marriage” — How to Stop Waiting, Take Back Your Power, and Become the Man She Can’t Ignore
If you’ve ever found yourself Googling “sexless marriage help” or “why am I unhappy with my wife” at 2 a.m., you’re not alone. Brother, that sentence you keep repeating — “I’m unhappy with the sex in my marriage” — isn’t one problem, it’s three: happiness, sex, and marriage. And the real issue isn’t her. It’s the dials of agency and courage you’ve handed away. In this article, I’ll show you how to reclaim them and why doing so is the key to intimacy, passion, and a marriage you can breathe in again.

How Taming the Lion Kills Connection: Why Domesticated Men Feel Safe… But Aren’t
Most men don’t lose their power all at once. They trade it slowly; for peace, for predictability, for approval. But a domesticated man isn’t a safe man. He’s a hollow one. This article explores why intimacy dies in the cage of control, how women and men both contribute to emotional gridlock, and what it takes to rebuild connection, passion, and presence, from the inside out.

The Puzzle That’s Hindering Your Marriage (and Why You Should Stop Solving It)
You’ve been twisting and turning every move you can think of… apologizing, helping, walking on eggshells, hoping she’ll finally feel okay. But nothing works. Because the puzzle you’re trying to solve isn’t yours. And the more you ignore your own, the worse it gets. This post is about reclaiming the right Rubik’s Cube, and handing hers back with love, not resentment.

Don’t You Forget About Me: The Anthem That Raised a Generation of Needy Men
The songs we grew up on weren’t just background noise—they were emotional blueprints. For many of us, Simple Minds’ “Don’t You Forget About Me” and “Alive and Kicking” didn’t just play during our teenage years. They shaped how we saw love, women, and ourselves. This article explores how those anthems taught us to equate connection with survival—and how we can finally reclaim our sovereignty from the soundtracks that trained us to chase what we already carry inside.

Secret Garden: Why the Connection You Crave Keeps Escaping You
spent years believing the distance was her fault—that if I just loved her better, she’d finally let me in. But the truth hit harder: I was asking her to give me something I hadn’t yet given myself. Real intimacy doesn’t open for a man who’s still trying to earn it. It opens for the man who’s finally learned how to be it.

Sexual Shame and the Spiritually Shut Down Man
There’s a quiet war raging in the hearts of many men—a battle that began in childhood, long before marriage or fatherhood. It’s not just about sex. It’s about shame. Spiritual numbness. A loss of fire and freedom. In this deeply personal reflection, I explore how early experiences of shame around male sexuality create emotionally and spiritually shut-down men—and what it takes to reclaim our power, passion, and purpose.

You Are the Architect: How Reclaiming Meaning-Making Heals Disconnection, Pain, and Your Relationship
If you’re stuck in conflict, tension, or disconnection with your partner, the real problem may not be the relationship—but the meaning your brain is assigning to it. Neuroscience reveals how your worldview shapes emotional experience. When men learn to rebuild their internal lens, they stop spiraling and start leading.

The Lie That Keeps Men Exhausted — And the Shift That Finally Sets You Free
You’ve broken free. From emotional chaos, codependency, survival mode. But now you’re here—in the quiet. And it’s disorienting as hell.
This isn’t failure. This is the frontier.
Like the settlers who fled tyranny only to face a harsh, empty land—this part of your journey isn’t about comfort. It’s about creation.
And no one tells you how hard that is… until you’re living it.

Why She’s Still Cold—Even Though You’re Finally Getting Warmer
A woman can’t bring you warmth if your own cabin is cold.
And she won’t trust the fire if it only burns when you want sex.
So build the fire for you.
Tend it because you love who you are in its glow.
Make your life the kind of warmth that welcomes—never pressures.
Not as bait.
But as a home.

The Wild Flower, The Desert Rose, and the Ache That Won’t Let Go
For years, I chased something I couldn’t name—a magnetic longing for the feminine that followed me from childhood crushes to marriage, from infatuation to spiritual ache. I thought it was about a woman. I thought it was about sex. I thought it would go away once I found “the one.”
It didn’t.
This is the story of that longing. The shame it carried, the fantasies it fueled, and the fire that finally refined it.