Mastering the Art of Leading Yourself and Your Relationships
Empowering men with real stories, proven insights, and actionable strategies to break free from frustration, reclaim their power, and build thriving lives and marriages.
How to Be a Confident Husband: From Endless Self-Doubt to Unshakable Confidence and Trust
I don’t have a perfect marriage, nor am I seeking one. I don’t even believe such a thing exists.
What I have—what I’m continually creating—is a resilient marriage. And I’ve done that by becoming a resilient and confident man.
A marriage without disagreements isn’t a strong marriage—it’s often a fragile one, where real conversations aren’t happening, where one or both people are suppressing themselves just to “keep the peace.” That’s not what I want, and it’s not what we have.
Zelda’s otherness—her different perspectives, thoughts, and emotions—isn’t something I try to manage or control. It’s something I deeply value. It makes my life richer, more expansive. Our differences challenge me in ways that make me stronger, and I see that as an asset, not a liability.
So we don’t avoid disagreements. We work through them. And in over six years, we haven’t had a single fight or argument that has broken our connection.
Not because I’ve unlocked some perfect marriage formula. Not because we never hit tense moments. But because I’ve learned how to lead myself well—and when I do that, I create a relationship where challenges don’t turn into distance, where we don’t get stuck in endless cycles of frustration.
That’s what The Resilient Husband is about. Not a quick fix. Not a set of tactics to “manage” your wife. But a way of becoming the man you were meant to be—so you can lead your marriage with real confidence.
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From Stuck to Sovereign: The Awakening Every Strong Man Needs to Command His Marriage, Family, and Legacy
Hard times create strong men—but are we heading back into bondage? Discover how real freedom is built from the inside out and why most men are chasing it the wrong way.
Why I’m Not Like Most Men’s Coaches (And Why That’s a Good Thing)
Most men’s work today is all about selling you an identity—alpha, warrior, king—but real growth isn’t about performing masculinity. It’s about becoming a grounded, steady, trustworthy man. In this article, I break down why my approach to men’s work is different, how I filter for serious men in my community, and why transformation should be felt by those closest to you—not just talked about. Read more here.
Still Waiting: Healing Father Wounds and Breaking the Cycle of Stuckness, Delay, and Disconnection”
Waiting doesn’t fix anything—it only drains your life of energy and hope. Inspired by Dag Nasty’s ‘Still Waiting,’ this article dives into the struggle of stuckness, the lessons I’ve learned about breaking free, and how men can reclaim their lives from resentment, fear, and inaction.
Why We Feel Stuck in Our Relationships (And How to Break Free)
For years, I believed my happiness depended on fixing my circumstances or my wife’s behavior. But I was wrong. Real change doesn’t come from ‘out there’—it starts within. Learn how The Descent, The Choice, and The Ascent can help you reclaim your power and thrive.
Announcing My New Book: What to Do When the Aliens Show Up (and Even If They Don’t)
After years of reflection, learning, and personal growth, I’m thrilled to announce the release of my new book, What to Do When the Aliens Show Up (and Even If They Don’t). This isn’t just another book—it’s the culmination of my journey from frustration and fear to...
Why I Always Felt Like I Wasn’t Good Enough—and How I Finally Reclaimed My Confidence
If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough—like no matter how hard you try, you’re still falling short—I understand. I carried that belief for years, a quiet but constant voice telling me I wasn’t worthy of love or success. It wasn’t until my marriage was on the brink that I realized how deeply shame and self-loathing had taken root in my life. But here’s the truth: those feelings are not who you are, and they don’t have to define you. In this post, I’ll share my journey from self-doubt to self-acceptance and offer the first steps you can take to reclaim your confidence.
How I Almost Lost My Marriage Despite Being “The Smartest Guy in the Room”
I’ve always been the guy who could step into a mess, see the problem, and fix it. But at home, my analytical skills only made things worse. My wife didn’t need me to diagnose her feelings—she needed me to see them. Here’s how I almost lost my marriage and the steps I took to save it.
Trapped and Frustrated: How I Broke Free From the Cycle Destroying My Marriage
Six years ago, I felt completely stuck in my marriage—blamed, frustrated, and wondering if we’d make it. Here’s the journey that changed everything, and how you can break free too.
The Pain of a Sexless Marriage: A Raw Email Thread Every Man Stuck In Limbo Needs to Read
Jon felt trapped in a sexless marriage, unsure of how to fix what felt irreparable. In this series of raw, unfiltered emails between Jon and his mentor Sven, they dig deep into the emotional struggles, frustrations, and misunderstandings that keep couples stuck in gridlock. Read on to uncover how men like Jon can break free from the pain, reclaim their self-worth, and create the intimacy they’ve been longing for.
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