Mastering the Art of Leading Yourself and Your Relationships
Empowering men with real stories, proven insights, and actionable strategies to break free from frustration, reclaim their power, and build thriving lives and marriages.
What on earth is my mission?!
In personal development circles and men's work, finding one's mission and purpose is often spoken about. This frustrates many men who struggle to find their mission. Many experience shame, discouragement and feelings of inferiority for not having a more clear vision...
Why you should bury your wife in the backyard
Let's face it... relationships are hard! They're frustrating, demanding, and often downright exasperating. In the video below, I speak about how our relationships are challenged and downright imperiled by a very subtle process of creating imaginary versions of our...
Is control and controlling another in a relationship ever ok?
My gut tells me that control is really a false image… that we don’t really have control (except for limited parts of ourselves). But I would like to hear more on the subject
Do I even want to be married to this woman?!
Common to every man I speak with who is trying to determine if he wants to stay in his current relationship is the frustration that his spouse or significant other is not easy to relate to. She’s cold, distant, disconnected, and disinterested and he is p-i-s-s-e-d about it!
Big Bertha, being a man, and the three kinds of try
https://youtu.be/xfpXcBa9r6A Disclaimer: If you were one of the men who recently visited the Intrepid Homestead, and participated (or didn't) in flipping Big Bertha - please resist the urge to think that I was analyzing you and identified you personally as one of...
Mirror, Mirror On The Wall, Who’s The Avoidant Wife After All?
https://youtu.be/GIT2r5kAPec Your avoidant wife isn't a bitch. She's not...against you, not your enemy, and not your adversary. She's also not holding out on you or keeping distant from you because of deep childhood wounds. It's not her daddy issues, a controlling...
Performance-based self-esteem (value, worthiness and significance)
Recently, my friend John asked, "What is performance-based self-esteem?". I am sure he knows inside what it is but recalling his own beginnings in this journey, John recalled how easy it was to not see this pattern in his own life and wanted me to make a video for men...
Why won’t my wife get off her cell phone?
Brothers around the world are experiencing their disconnected wives and this painful feeling of disconnection that it triggers within them when they see her on her cell or mobile phone for hours at a time. Why won’t she get off of it?
Overcoming My Shame Enough To Become Open To Mentoring
See – for my whole life, I’d already felt like a loser – like I wasn’t showing up as much of a boy, let alone a man. I felt like I chronically fell short of every masculine ideal I witnessed. I was well-accustomed to the deep feelings of shame for all the ways I wasn’t scoring well on the man card.
Too long have you sat in the shadows
You know I'm a sucker for a good story and how they move me. I love encountering epic portraits of truth in story form. As far as themes go, identity is a major component of my passion, mission, and mentoring practice. Naturally then, stories with themes that include...
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