If you’ve ever found yourself Googling “sexless marriage help” or “why am I unhappy with my wife” at 2 a.m., you’re not alone. Brother, that sentence you keep repeating — “I’m unhappy with the sex in my marriage” — isn’t one problem, it’s three: happiness, sex, and marriage. And the real issue isn’t her. It’s the dials of agency and courage you’ve handed away. In this article, I’ll show you how to reclaim them and why doing so is the key to intimacy, passion, and a marriage you can breathe in again.
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The Missing Ingredient in Most Marriage Rescue Recipes
Many men embrace conditional regard thinking it’s how they can create and enforce good personal boundaries. In fact, the opposite is true. Men with conditional regard for others require things from others that they can’t control.
Yeah, but… at what point does a man say “enough is enough”?!
Many think they’re playing The Hero simply because they’re no longer idle in their story. While taking action is more heroic than living idly in inaction, if a man’s story has a Villain, he’s still The Victim. Guys get pissed when I say that. That, too, is often more victimization.
How long did it take for your wife to…?
Hi friends. I am often asked about how things turned around between myself and my wife. Today I...
Is control and controlling another in a relationship ever ok?
My gut tells me that control is really a false image… that we don’t really have control (except for limited parts of ourselves). But I would like to hear more on the subject
Big Bertha, being a man, and the three kinds of try
https://youtu.be/xfpXcBa9r6A Disclaimer: If you were one of the men who recently visited the...
Mirror, Mirror On The Wall, Who’s The Avoidant Wife After All?
https://youtu.be/GIT2r5kAPec Your avoidant wife isn't a bitch. She's not...against you, not your...
Performance-based self-esteem (value, worthiness and significance)
Recently, my friend John asked, "What is performance-based self-esteem?". I am sure he knows...
Too long have you sat in the shadows
You know I'm a sucker for a good story and how they move me. I love encountering epic portraits of...
Why didn’t you take the candlesticks?
Anyone that knows me even a little bit knows I'm passionate about the concept of showing others...
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