Is Your Marriage Falling Apart?

You’ve Tried Everything. You’re Exhausted. You Don’t Know If It’s Worth Saving. I Can Help.

You’ve done everything you were told would make your marriage work.
You’ve been patient, supportive, understanding, or maybe you’ve tried to set boundaries and stand up for yourself.

None of it is working.

• Your wife is cold, distant, or constantly irritated with you.
• Sex is rare or completely gone.
• Every conversation turns into a fight, a shutdown, or just silence.
• You feel disrespected, unseen, and unappreciated—like nothing you do is ever enough.
• You’re stuck between leaving and staying, trying to figure out if this marriage is fixable or doomed.

You’re not alone. And you’re not crazy for feeling the way you do.

But Here’s the Truth:

You can’t fix this by trying harder.
You can’t fix this by waiting for her to change.
And you definitely can’t fix this by staying stuck in confusion, resentment, or self-doubt.

If you don’t begin leading yourself now, you’ll keep drifting toward a miserable marriage or a divorce you don’t want, or worse, never saw coming.

That’s Where I Come In.

What Kind of Man Works With Me?

You don’t need to be broken.
But you do need to be done waiting.

I work with men who are stuck, but not done.
Men whose marriages are on life support, but whose spirit isn’t.
Men who feel lost, exhausted, angry, or ashamed, but still have a spark left inside.

This is for you if:

• You’re tired of feeling powerless, invisible, or reactive.

• You want to show up with clarity, not confusion.

• You want respect, not permission.

• You want to become the kind of man your family, your future, and your soul can trust.

Most of the men I work with are high-performing professionals—engineers, pilots, surgeons, software architects, attorneys—men who’ve excelled in systems of precision and pressure, but who silently struggle when life gets emotional and uncertain.

And then there are the men who keep the world running: firefighters, law enforcement officers, tradesmen, military vets, EMS professionals, farmers, mechanics, linemen, and blue-collar business owners. Men who’ve spent their lives giving everything to everyone else yet wonder why nothing’s left in the tank.

My story spans both worlds.

I’ve sat in the C-suite.
I’ve worked in high-stakes tech, led teams, delivered under pressure, and navigated the corporate maze.
But I’m just as at home in my coveralls and muck boots, clearing fence rows, fixing gear, or splitting wood with my sons and daughters, and sometimes, even my clients.

I love the smell of two-stroke fumes and whiteboard markers. I love wiring diagrams, and Venn diagrams

And that blend…. of “boardroom and barn,” and my mix of backend systems and backwoods simplicity is why men from all walks of life become fast friends in my world.
Because what we’re working on isn’t about status. It’s about soul.

Whether you’re holding a scalpel or a shovel, flying at 30,000 feet or pulling 14-hour shifts, if you’re seriously ready to get unstuck, this is your next move.

You’re not alone.
And this might just be the most important hours you invest in yourself in your life. Men say so all the time (see below).

How to Get Started

Take the First Step

I only work with men who are serious about change, and ready to work for it.

If you’re ready to stop circling the same painful conversations, feeling powerless in your marriage, or wondering who you’ve even become, here’s where we begin:

Schedule a Free 60-Minute Strategy Call

This is not a sales pitch.
It’s a real conversation about:

• What’s really happening in your marriage

• Where you’re stuck and why it’s not changing

• Whether this kind of coaching is the right fit for you

If we both agree it’s a match, I’ll lay out a clear plan for your 6–8 week coaching intensive.

 

📆 Click Here to Book Your Free Strategy Call Now 📆

Right Now, You Have Two Choices

1️⃣ Do nothing. Keep hoping, waiting, and second-guessing while things continue to drift.
2️⃣ Step up. Reclaim your clarity, confidence, and leadership—starting today.

Most men wait too long.
They lose themselves trying to keep the peace or hold on to something that’s already slipping away.

Don’t be that man.

The Masterful Men Coaching Experience

High-Intensity 1-on-1 Mentorship for Men Who Refuse to Stay Stuck

I work exclusively with men in failing marriages who are ready to take back their power, clarity, and confidence—so they can make the right decision about their future.

This isn’t traditional therapy.
This isn’t marriage counseling.
This isn’t about sitting in your feelings and waiting for things to get better.

This is a 6-8 week intensive, high-impact coaching experience designed to:

• Help you break out of confusion and emotional chaos so you can see the truth of your marriage clearly.
• Shift the power dynamic in your relationship so you stop feeling controlled, desperate, or powerless.
• Teach you how to command respect, attraction, and connection—whether you stay or leave.
• Give you a clear, no-BS roadmap for how to move forward with strength, confidence, and certainty.

I deliver coaching 1-on-1 over 6-8 weeks, with:

✅ 60-minute (every 10 days) or 90-minute (every 14 days) deep-dive sessions
✅ High-intensity coaching tailored to YOUR situation
✅ Action plans that create immediate change—no waiting, no wasted time

How Do You Know If This Coaching Is for You?

You’re a fit for this coaching if:

✔️ You’re tired of guessing whether your marriage can be saved.

✔️ You refuse to be a passive, powerless bystander in your own life.

✔️ You want clarity, confidence, and direction—not just “hope” and “prayers.”

✔️ You’re ready to get your power back, no matter what happens in your marriage.

This is NOT for you if:

❌ You want someone to blame your wife for everything.

❌ You expect her to change before you do.

❌ You just want to vent and complain instead of taking action.

This is about RESULTS.

If you’re ready to turn this crisis into the most powerful transformation of your life, I’m ready to guide you.

Why Coaching (vs Therapy, or Counseling)—And Why Me

Modern culture trains men to believe their emotions are dangerous.
That masculinity is a liability.
That their struggles mean something’s wrong with them.

And when that emotional isolation finally leads to dysfunction?
They get pathologized for it.

Let’s be clear: Many men do need clinical support.
Therapy and mental health care have their rightful place—and I encourage men to use them when needed.

But healing doesn’t end with diagnosis.
Growth doesn’t come from insight alone.

Throughout human history, men didn’t just seek out professionals.
They sought out mentors. Elders. Guides. Brothers.
Not people who treated them—but people who walked with them.
People who saw them. Challenged them. Called them higher.

That’s what I do.

I don’t work with you clinically—I work with you relationally.
Man to man. Coach to leader. Brother to brother.

I don’t offer coping strategies.
I offer clarity, conviction, and challenge.

I won’t sit back and analyze.
I’ll stand with you while you face the truth—and become the man you were meant to be.

Don’t Take My Word For It. Take Theirs.

Real Men. Real Transformation.

Jay in MT, Canada

Jeff in CA, USA

Andrew in CT, USA

I’m so grateful.

Making the financial, mental, and time commitment to partaking and completing the program has been completely worth my time. I wouldn’t change that decision if someone paid me.

From where I started and the life I led before this journey, I am doing so much better and can see the path forward in improvement. I also have great peace in what I can’t yet see clearly in my future.

Was it a challenge? Yes. Did I want to be lazy? Yes! Was it one of the biggest areas of growth in my life to this day? For the better? Absolutely!

I’ve never been so grateful and at peace in my life as I am now. I know how to lead myself to continual abundance and growth in those things too!

I would 100% recommend! Especially if you’re questioning it. Do it. Do it now! There’s a part of you that’s yearning for this and wants this. You’ll be free to love yourself so much more and this will show you how! Thanks to this journey, I have such immense love, respect, value, appreciation, and comfort for and with myself.

Daniel in MA, USA

Truly transformational! I changed and became an enhanced me. I feel better! I think better! I’m more resilient.

This course is a journey I won’t forget. The biggest thing I’ve learned is how to really enjoy my life without fear. I have a greater clarity that gives me hope despite difficult situations and greater inspiration for life and purpose.

At first, I did not see much of a benefit in doing an online course with other men at the same time. However, it made the experience greater. I learned more and felt loved and encouraged during the course. There is great respect and care for each man on his journey.

I expanded my capacity to love and be loved and am forever grateful!

This course is transformational, and it takes time. Don’t be afraid to take your time with the course. It’s all worth it because the growth is strong and exciting.

Abdul in TX, USA

I came into this program and community desperate and broken—desperate to hold onto my marriage, broken from trying other approaches to save it.

It was a really difficult time in January and February of 2023. I came to appreciate how much of my life was dictated by stories and assumptions about how my life was supposed to be compared to how things actually were. There was a lot of pain and emotions, and this community helped me harness that to move my life in a direction that served me.

I did get divorced, but I was able to get a reasonable outcome in the settlement and maintain a good co-parenting relationship. I got a better role at work, I’m physically healthier, and I look better. While I’m not rushing to get remarried, I’ve been pleasantly surprised that the work I’ve done through this community has helped me understand women in ways I couldn’t despite having read books like The 5 Love Languages.

The difference between buying a book or watching YouTube videos and taking this course and joining this community is night and day. The biggest benefit is instantly getting a group of initiated men who support and encourage you. It’s not just people bemoaning their life situation—they help test your beliefs, coach you, and help you gain clarity on what to do next. Instead of getting stuck in analysis paralysis, the community, course, and process help you shift from inaction to action, from fear and indecision to confidence and decisiveness.

While I wish I had known these things in my 20s, I think I found this course at a pivotal moment in my 40s to rebuild on a stronger foundation. I think every man going through an existential, midlife, or relationship crisis benefits from the work we do here, and I would wholeheartedly recommend this course to them.

Cliff in PA, USA

I came into this program with a full series of coaching and a year-long guided course behind me. This was going to be nice, but honestly, I’d done all the hard stuff already, so I was expecting middling results—nice, but not huge.

What a load of crap I was telling myself. Yes, I’d come a long way from coaching, and I’d certainly learned a ton from the follow-up course I took, but there was so much ugly stuff seeping from the lifelong wounds that scored my subconscious. It poisoned my happiness and sickened my relationships, and had done so with such consistency that I thought this was normal.

This program gave me a flashlight and guide rope to descend into those depths, find the fissures, and then address them. To drop the metaphors, I entered this program as a man my fiancé loved deeply. She said I was a good man, but I had a short and scary temper. Now, the word I hear most often (aside from sexy) is “calm.” The last time I heard anything about temper was a reference to how she can tell I get angry even if I never blow up—and that I deal with it without ever lashing out.

I don’t hate myself anymore.

For any man wishing to give himself this gift, know you will have to face hard truths about yourself. You will have to admit things to yourself and others that wash you in the fires of shame. And then you’ll have to learn to let it all go.

You’ll learn the things that have been hurting you are also the things you cling to. To live a better life, you need to gird the courage to change everything and take responsibility for yourself in ways you never dreamed.

Do it.

Matthew in MN, USA

My experience with this program has been extremely helpful. The pain that I was suffering led me to suicidal thoughts. My world was completely falling apart. Everything I dreamed of being seemed to cause me great pain and misery.

I had wanted to be a husband and father so badly. When I met my wife and kids, I fell madly in love. I was a couple years clean from a 12-year drug and alcohol addiction that almost took my life several times. But about 15 years later, I found myself completely miserable and ready to end it all. We were not as close. She didn’t want to communicate as much or have sex as much either. This triggered me, and I hurt her emotionally.

I found this community through Steve. I quickly realized that I was right where I needed to be. This course helped save my life, my marriage, and my family. It was very painful at times, but today I realize and accept that I am okay all by myself. I still have needy thoughts, but I have the tools to handle them properly.

Be careful with your expectations. This course is very helpful and worth every penny, but I still have work to do. This journey is a lifelong process. This course gives us the opportunity to be our own heroes. I thank God for the opportunity.

Alex in USA

Dear brothers,

I completed the course. It took an entire year, with the last month taking three months to finish. The end of the journey comes at a very challenging time in my life, as I am in the middle of a high-conflict divorce.

What did I learn through this journey?

Like most men who enrolled in this course, I came in with the goal of learning tips and techniques that would help me save my marriage and soon found out there is no such “silver bullet.”

1. The most important thing I learned is to tell the truth about myself, to be myself, and to live based on a set of strong values. This is not happening overnight—it’s a continuous journey with ups and downs. By telling the truth, by being honest, by not feeling the need to impress, heavy layers of “Mr. Nice Guy”-ness are peeled off my skin, and this is such a relief, no matter how life goes.
2. In line with this, I learned to accept myself, with good and bad days, and also accept and understand others—without judging them and without self-judgment, as others may be going through challenges too.
3. The power of brotherhood is something I discovered and fully embraced. Being able to take the issues to the men, having a shoulder to cry on, and getting advice—these have truly saved my life, and I am forever grateful to this community.
4. Holding on to my N.U.T.s: It takes time and practice (and several failures in this growth process) to get there. And there is always learning. N.U.T.s and boundaries for me are fundamental at this time as I am going through this very complex custody case.
5. The Four Agreements to live by:

• Be impeccable with your word;
• Don’t take anything personally;
• Don’t make assumptions;
• Always do your best.

6. It’s your journey. No one else’s. You have your own rhythm and your own way to deal with challenges. Talk to brothers, yet don’t compare too much with others. Work on yourself and stay on course at your own pace. Working on yourself never ends—it takes habit and diligence.
7. It’s a hard journey. Yet we learn only through hardship. We don’t wish anyone to go through hardship, but this hardship is the only way to true transformation.

Overall, a very worthy experience! Thank you, brothers, for supporting me through the course. Have I resolved my problems? No. But I have embarked on the journey to acquire the knowledge and relationships to help me resolve them.

Dean in England, UK

My Renewed Masculine Man Experience

My wife had left me. My mum had died. But something in me held onto hope. To start with, it was hope that I could win my wife back—win her even though she had built resentment for many years, even though she had an emotional affair partner she was seeing regularly, and even though she didn’t want to talk to me.

But then that hope changed when I realized a lot of issues were due to my dependency on others, particularly my wife. My soul cried out for the need for renewed masculinity.

This was before I found this course. And when I did… Wow. It’s slow on purpose. Then it speeds up. And again, wow! It took a few months after I completed it for it to really settle in. People who know me say I’m the best version of myself.

I’m now going through a hostile divorce, but I know myself. I trust myself. I am going to be more than okay for the rest of my life.

This course gave me that. I tried a number of other courses before making my home here. I am loved and challenged. I am exactly where I should be.

Andrew in KY, USA

My Renewed Masculine Man Experience

I can say without a doubt that this has been the best investment I have ever made. I started my journey through the course with very little confidence in the man I was. I didn’t really know why I had gotten to that place in life, but I knew something just wasn’t right. I had low regard for myself. I would beat myself up for past mistakes and was often anxious about the future.

After these last six months in the course—first breaking down all the parts of my experience I didn’t want and then addressing the underlying shame—I can say that I am a renewed man. The course, through the excellent videos, assignments, and meetings with other men on the journey, has helped me find, first and foremost, self-acceptance. I found my heart. From there, high regard and forgiveness for myself has led to self-trust and confidence. I now know who I am and that my future will be far better than where I came from.

Adam in WA, USA

I joined RMM looking to fix things.  To fix me, to fix my marriage, to fix my life.  I didn’t expect that I would finish RMM with the solid understanding that I’m not broken, never was, and “fixing” was quite beside the point.
If that wasn’t clear, another way to say it is that I hoped to walk out of RMM with a specific outcome.  At the time, I wouldn’t have said that – but looking back, that feels accurate.
Instead of an outcome, what I came to understand is RMM is/was the beginning point of me building a new version of myself.  I’m not in a place where every painful circumstance is resolved, or where I have an expectation of the rest of my life to be perfectly rosy and merry.
But this experience reminded me that I’m not broken, not in need of fixing, that I am loved, worthy, worthwhile, qualified, and a creator.  In whatever circumstance I’m in, I know I have the ability to give love, trust, and warmth to my own heart – I don’t have to expect my wife, my job, my circumstances, the brothers, or anyone else to give that TO me.
The most profound part of the experience, for me, was getting clear on how much shame I carried every day of my life.  None of it needed to have purpose or reason – it could be very small and unimportant, in fact – but I knew I couldn’t be open to the concept that I’m loved/lovable/worthwhile while also combating that with self shame.  Those days are done.  There’s no shame or condemnation for me anymore, and I don’t need to welcome that from anyone else, either.
Per usual, the best part about it is the brotherhood.  Getting to engage with the brothers at a deeper level about these concepts is the thing that is most life changing.  You’re worth loving, and these guys are amazing to experience life with.