Yeah, but… at what point does a man say “enough is enough”?!

Yeah, but… at what point does a man say “enough is enough”?!

by | May 23, 2022 | Avoidance & Attachment, Drama Triangle Detox, Emotional Dependency and External Regulation, Emotional Immaturity and Reactivity, Empowerment Dynamics, Loss of Polarity and Desire, Marriage, Marriage & Relationships, Masculinity, Relationship Conflict, Romantic Relationships, Self-Leadership in Relationships, Sex, Sex & Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Sovereignty, Agency & Leadership, Stuckness, Struggles & Suffering

I hear some version of this question or objection weekly. Here are some similar questions he asks: “Yeah, but… aren’t there some cases where it’s just too far gone?””Yeah, but… how can I know it will work out and that...
Why men who say “I’m holding out hope that she’ll change her mind” often end up divorced

Why men who say “I’m holding out hope that she’ll change her mind” often end up divorced

by | May 9, 2022 | Emotional Gridlock, Emotional Immaturity and Reactivity, Femininity, Marriage, Masculinity, Relational Leadership, Relationship Conflict, Resentment and Suppressed Anger, Romantic Relationships, Sex, Shame and Emotional Withdrawal

Hey brother, if you’re reading this as a man experiencing marriage trouble, I want you to know that I’m for you! I’m on your team and want the best for you.  That’s why I’m sharing these words with you. Words that might sting or...