Why the Man You Want Keeps Disappearing in Your Marriage

Why the Man You Want Keeps Disappearing in Your Marriage

Understanding emotional safety in marriage, how men respond to pressure and intensity, and what it really takes to rebuild intimacy My coaching and mentoring work tends to encounter recurring themes and patterns, and I suspect your life does too. Lately, there’s one I...
How Men Lose Emotional Safety

How Men Lose Emotional Safety

— and How to Create It Without Becoming a Simp or an A**hole I’ve been quiet long enough that a few readers reached out to check on me. Which, honestly, made me laugh. Yikes. I appreciate it, truly. And yes, I’m fine. Nothing bad happened. No implosion, secret drama,...
Still Waiting: Healing Father Wounds and Breaking the Cycle of Stuckness, Delay, and Disconnection”

Still Waiting: Healing Father Wounds and Breaking the Cycle of Stuckness, Delay, and Disconnection”

Welcome to this month’s Musical Monday Musings, where I take a song from the soundtrack of my life and explore the truths it reveals about the journey of becoming a man, husband, father, and human being. Today’s song is Dag Nasty’s “Still Waiting.” If you’re not...