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How much it costs to work with me

What this page is (and isn’t)


This page exists to answer a simple, reasonable question: what does it actually cost to engage this work?

It’s not a pitch, and it’s not a commitment. It’s here so you can get oriented without guessing, decoding, or reading between the lines.

There isn’t one price, because there isn’t one way to engage. Different men need different levels of proximity, structure, and support at different times.

The three main ways to engage my work

Courses

Courses are the most accessible way to engage the work independently.

They currently range from $29 to $699, depending on depth and scope.

Courses are a good fit if you want to begin building clarity, agency, and self-trust on your own schedule, or if you want to explore specific themes before deciding on deeper engagement.

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Community

The community is for men who want momentum, reflection, and support while continuing to do their own work.

Community membership currently costs $175 per quarter or $650 per year.

That includes access to all courses priced under $100, ongoing discussion spaces, and optional group conversations.

It’s often the right place to start if you want connection and accountability without committing to one-on-one coaching.

Learn more about the community

Coaching & mentoring

One-on-one coaching always begins with a free 60-minute discovery call.

If it’s a good fit, the primary coaching pathway is a year-long relationship designed to support real, sustainable change.

That relationship includes:

  • A minimum of six hours of one-on-one coaching
  • A full year of group coaching (20+ live sessions per month)
  • Community membership
  • Access to hundreds of hours of courses and curriculum

The one-on-one sessions can be used intensively over a short period or spread out over the year. Some men want concentrated support early. Others prefer steady touchpoints. Both are valid.

This year-long coaching relationship currently costs $3,600.

I also offer higher-touch options that include additional one-on-one sessions, but those are not listed publicly. If you’re looking for more support, that’s something we can talk about during a discovery call.

Learn more about coaching

How to think about the investment

Money isn’t the point of this work, but it does matter.

Good intentions don’t change marriages, missions, families, or faith. They don’t restore self-trust. And they don’t resolve long-standing patterns by themselves.

Most men already understand this when it comes to things like their vehicle, their home, their health, or their livelihood. When something matters, they find a responsible way to address it.

This work asks for that same level of seriousness about your inner life, your relationships, and your direction.

If this isn’t the right time

If the numbers on this page feel out of reach right now, that doesn’t mean something is wrong with you.

It usually just means your next step is elsewhere for now.

Many men begin with writing, the email newsletter, or lower-cost courses, and return to coaching or community later when the timing is right.
If the numbers on this page feel out of reach right now, that doesn’t mean something is wrong with you.

In many cases, it simply means your next step is to be in closer relationship with the work and the people doing it, before committing to one-on-one coaching.

That’s exactly what the community is for.

The community is not anonymous, hands-off, or passive. It’s a very personal space where we actually get to know one another over time. I’m present and engaged there, and you’ll also get to know the men who serve as community leaders.

Several of those leaders also offer one-on-one support at rates lower than mine, which creates additional on-ramps for men who want personal guidance while continuing to grow their capacity, stability, and agency.

For many men, the community becomes the place where clarity forms, trust is built, and the question of coaching answers itself naturally, without pressure.

Learn more about the community or See all the ways to work with me