How Men Lose Emotional Safety

How Men Lose Emotional Safety

— and How to Create It Without Becoming a Simp or an A**hole I’ve been quiet long enough that a few readers reached out to check on me. Which, honestly, made me laugh. Yikes. I appreciate it, truly. And yes, I’m fine. Nothing bad happened. No implosion, secret drama,...
Why Does It Feel Like I’m the Only One Who Wants to Spend Time Together?

Why Does It Feel Like I’m the Only One Who Wants to Spend Time Together?

Understanding partner time, self-abandonment, and the loss of connection. Have you ever found yourself lying next to the person you love, wondering why it still feels like you’re alone?The conversation fades, the laughter’s gone, and even time together feels like...
Could Loving Your Wife “Like Christ Loves the Church” Be Killing Your Marriage?

Could Loving Your Wife “Like Christ Loves the Church” Be Killing Your Marriage?

🔊 Prefer to listen to this blog post? Note to Readers Before we get into this, I want to set the stage. Most of the time, what’s shared here is written for men of every background, men who may or may not have a faith or spiritual tradition, but who all wrestle with...
How Taming the Lion Kills Connection: Why Domesticated Men Feel Safe… But Aren’t

How Taming the Lion Kills Connection: Why Domesticated Men Feel Safe… But Aren’t

This month inside the Masterful Men community, we’ve been talking about courage—not the kind of courage that shows up in grand gestures, but the daily kind. The courage to tell the truth. To face ourselves. To stay open in hard conversations. To drop the mask and stop...