Secret Garden: Why the Connection You Crave Keeps Escaping You

Secret Garden: Why the Connection You Crave Keeps Escaping You

Welcome to this month’s Musical Monday Musings, where I take a song from the soundtrack of my life and explore the truths it reveals about the journey of becoming a man, husband, father, and human being. Music doesn’t just entertain—it penetrates. It sneaks past our...
You Are the Architect: How Reclaiming Meaning-Making Heals Disconnection, Pain, and Your Relationship

You Are the Architect: How Reclaiming Meaning-Making Heals Disconnection, Pain, and Your Relationship

If you’re in a relationship where the spark has died, the emotional connection is gone, and your wife or romantic partner feels more like a roommate, a stranger, or even an adversary, you’re not alone. Many men come to me with stories like this: “She’s cold....
Why Successful, High-Performing Men Suck at Clarity (And How to Start Fixing It)

Why Successful, High-Performing Men Suck at Clarity (And How to Start Fixing It)

You’d think that the more successful, intelligent, and capable a man is, the clearer he’d be about his own life. But in my experience, the opposite is true. The smartest, most driven men—the ones who build businesses, lead teams, and make things happen—are often the...