The Conditions for Masculine Maturity

by | Jan 6, 2026

The Conditions for Masculine Maturity Why masculine maturity is not a personality trait, philosophy, or performance This page is part of an explanation of the worldview that informs my work. Some Context In my work with men, I’ve noticed something consistent across...

Agency Relocation and Internal Authority

by | Jan 5, 2026

Authority and Agency Relocation How authority and agency move from external sources back to self, and why transformation depends on it Part of the Metanoia Framework → Mechanics What I Mean by Authority and Agency Relocation Authority and agency relocation describes a...

Worldview

by | Jan 2, 2026

My Worldview The perspective underneath how I understand people, change, relationships, and human flourishing Every form of help rests on a worldview, whether it is named or not. Worldview sits beneath advice, beneath methods, beneath tools, and beneath outcomes. It...

Sexless Marriage and Emotional Distance

by | Dec 29, 2025

Sexless Marriage and Emotional Distance When intimacy fades and you don’t know why Who this page is for (and who it isn’t) If you’re in a marriage where sex has faded or disappeared, and you don’t really understand how you got here, this page is for you. Maybe you...
Why Does It Feel Like I’m the Only One Who Wants to Spend Time Together?

Why Does It Feel Like I’m the Only One Who Wants to Spend Time Together?

by | Oct 23, 2025 | Avoidance & Attachment, Emotional Dependency and External Regulation, Loss of Polarity and Desire, Marriage, Marriage & Relationships, Relationship Conflict, Resentment and Suppressed Anger, Romantic Relationships, Sex & Intimacy, Sexless Marriage, Value & Significance, Walking on Eggshells

Understanding partner time, self-abandonment, and the loss of connection. Have you ever found yourself lying next to the person you love, wondering why it still feels like you’re alone?The conversation fades, the laughter’s gone, and even time together feels like...